object(BannersModel)#944 (42) { ["project_id"]=> string(1) "1" ["filepath"]=> string(31) "/w/spektrumzdravi/files/banners" ["rendered"]=> bool(false) ["site":"BannersModel":private]=> object(SitesModel)#36 (41) { ["accesses"]=> object(AccessesModel)#25 (22) { ["site_id":"AccessesModel":private]=> string(4) "8585" ["lang":"AccessesModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["project_id":"AccessesModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["data"]=> array(0) { } ["id"]=> NULL ["table":protected]=> string(14) "sites_accesses" ["where"]=> string(0) "" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } ["comments"]=> object(CommentsModel)#33 (26) { ["project_id":"CommentsModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["site_id":"CommentsModel":private]=> string(4) "8585" ["lang":"CommentsModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["additional_url":"CommentsModel":private]=> NULL ["new_comments":"CommentsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["site_comments":"CommentsModel":private]=> NULL ["paginator"]=> string(482) "" ["data"]=> array(0) { } ["id"]=> NULL ["table":protected]=> string(25) "comments_view as comments" ["where"]=> string(0) "" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } ["params"]=> object(ParamsModel)#35 (25) { ["id"]=> NULL ["site_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["values_all":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["values":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["project_id":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["lang":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["data"]=> array(0) { } ["table":protected]=> string(11) "params_view" ["where"]=> string(71) "( lang = 'cz' ) AND ( value = 'oblečení ze lnu' or value = 'vztahy' )" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" ["query"]=> string(120) "SELECT `sites_id` FROM `params_values` WHERE (`lang` = 'cz' ) AND (`value` = 'oblečení ze lnu' or `value` = 'vztahy' )" } ["test"]=> object(TestsModel)#39 (21) { ["site_id":"TestsModel":private]=> string(4) "8585" ["questions":"TestsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["data"]=> array(0) { } ["id"]=> NULL ["table":protected]=> string(17) "academy_questions" ["where"]=> string(0) "" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } ["paginator"]=> NULL ["tags"]=> array(1) { [0]=> string(0) "" } ["parent"]=> object(SitesModel)#920 (41) { ["accesses"]=> object(AccessesModel)#924 (22) { ["site_id":"AccessesModel":private]=> string(4) "8568" ["lang":"AccessesModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["project_id":"AccessesModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["data"]=> array(0) { } ["id"]=> NULL ["table":protected]=> string(14) "sites_accesses" ["where"]=> string(0) "" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } ["comments"]=> NULL ["params"]=> object(ParamsModel)#921 (24) { ["id"]=> NULL ["site_id"]=> string(4) "8568" ["values_all":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["values":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["project_id":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["lang":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["data"]=> array(0) { } ["table":protected]=> string(11) "params_view" ["where"]=> string(70) "( `lang` = 'cz' ) AND ( `project_id` = '1' ) AND ( sites_id = '8585' )" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } ["test"]=> object(TestsModel)#922 (21) { ["site_id":"TestsModel":private]=> string(4) "8568" ["questions":"TestsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["data"]=> array(0) { } ["id"]=> NULL ["table":protected]=> string(17) "academy_questions" ["where"]=> string(0) "" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } ["paginator"]=> NULL ["tags"]=> array(1) { [0]=> string(7) "poradna" } ["parent"]=> NULL ["site_files":"SitesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["site_params":"SitesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["called_params":"SitesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["add_params":"SitesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["parts":"SitesModel":private]=> array(3) { ["meta_description"]=> string(0) "" ["title"]=> string(22) "Psychologická poradna" ["url"]=> string(21) "psychologicka-poradna" } ["project_id":"SitesModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["inherited_tags"]=> array(0) { } ["children":"SitesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["children_count":"SitesModel":private]=> NULL ["state_allowed":"SitesModel":private]=> string(9) "published" ["url_prefix":"SitesModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["added_parts":"SitesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["data"]=> array(21) { ["sites_id"]=> string(4) "8568" ["relation_id"]=> string(4) "7483" ["lft"]=> string(6) "917954" ["rgt"]=> string(6) "918009" ["depth"]=> string(1) "2" ["list"]=> string(2) "34" ["parent_id"]=> string(4) "7376" ["project_id"]=> string(1) "1" ["tags"]=> string(9) "#poradna#" ["type"]=> string(4) "site" ["url"]=> string(21) "psychologicka-poradna" ["state"]=> string(9) "published" ["state_inherit"]=> string(1) "0" ["state_inherit_once"]=> string(1) "0" ["published_at"]=> string(19) "2013-01-07 13:20:00" ["updated"]=> string(19) "2017-03-18 03:11:56" ["created"]=> string(19) "2013-01-07 13:20:24" ["republished"]=> string(19) "2013-01-07 13:20:00" ["created_by"]=> string(1) "0" ["lang"]=> string(2) "cz" ["title"]=> string(22) "Psychologická poradna" } ["id"]=> string(4) "8568" ["table":protected]=> string(10) "sites_view" ["where"]=> string(61) "( relation_id = '7483' and project_id = '1' and lang = 'cz' )" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" ["lang"]=> string(2) "cz" ["query"]=> string(99) "SELECT * FROM `sites_view` WHERE (`relation_id` = '7483' and `project_id` = '1' and `lang` = 'cz' )" ["files"]=> object(FilesModel)#923 (27) { ["upload_path"]=> string(58) "/srv/eliska2/webapps/eliska2.0/www/w/spektrumzdravi/files/" ["cache_path":"FilesModel":private]=> string(58) "/srv/eliska2/webapps/eliska2.0/www/w/spektrumzdravi/cache/" ["files_path":"FilesModel":private]=> string(24) "/w/spektrumzdravi/files/" ["id"]=> NULL ["site_id":"FilesModel":private]=> int(8568) ["project_id":"FilesModel":private]=> int(1) ["lang":"FilesModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["images":"FilesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["images_all":"FilesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["data"]=> array(0) { } ["table":protected]=> string(10) "files_view" ["where"]=> string(46) "( project_id = '1' ) AND ( sites_id = '8568' )" ["order_by":protected]=> string(21) "list ASC, file_id ASC" ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } } ["site_files":"SitesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["site_params":"SitesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["called_params":"SitesModel":private]=> array(6) { ["pr_article"]=> object(ParamsModel)#27 (24) { ["id"]=> string(2) "38" ["site_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["values_all":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["values":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["project_id":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["lang":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["data"]=> array(13) { ["param_id"]=> string(2) "38" ["project_id"]=> string(1) "1" ["identifier"]=> string(10) "pr_article" ["multiple_values"]=> string(1) "0" ["selectable"]=> string(1) "1" ["public"]=> string(1) "0" ["visibility"]=> string(7) "article" ["type"]=> string(6) "BINARY" ["list"]=> string(1) "5" ["sites_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["name"]=> string(11) "PR článek" ["unit"]=> string(0) "" ["lang"]=> string(2) "cz" } ["table":protected]=> string(11) "params_view" ["where"]=> string(70) "( `lang` = 'cz' ) AND ( `project_id` = '1' ) AND ( sites_id = '8585' )" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } ["custom_links"]=> object(ParamsModel)#185 (24) { ["id"]=> string(4) "5025" ["site_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["values_all":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["values":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["project_id":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["lang":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["data"]=> array(13) { ["param_id"]=> string(4) "5025" ["project_id"]=> string(1) "1" ["identifier"]=> string(12) "custom_links" ["multiple_values"]=> string(1) "0" ["selectable"]=> string(1) "1" ["public"]=> string(1) "0" ["visibility"]=> string(10) "programmer" ["type"]=> string(4) "CHAR" ["list"]=> string(1) "0" ["sites_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["name"]=> string(12) "custom_links" ["unit"]=> string(0) "" ["lang"]=> string(2) "cz" } ["table":protected]=> string(11) "params_view" ["where"]=> string(70) "( `lang` = 'cz' ) AND ( `project_id` = '1' ) AND ( sites_id = '8585' )" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } ["ctete_take"]=> object(ParamsModel)#770 (24) { ["id"]=> string(4) "7163" ["site_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["values_all":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["values":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["project_id":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["lang":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["data"]=> array(13) { ["param_id"]=> string(4) "7163" ["project_id"]=> string(1) "1" ["identifier"]=> string(10) "ctete_take" ["multiple_values"]=> string(1) "1" ["selectable"]=> string(1) "0" ["public"]=> string(1) "0" ["visibility"]=> string(10) "programmer" ["type"]=> string(4) "CHAR" ["list"]=> string(1) "0" ["sites_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["name"]=> string(10) "ctete_take" ["unit"]=> string(0) "" ["lang"]=> string(2) "cz" } ["table":protected]=> string(11) "params_view" ["where"]=> string(70) "( `lang` = 'cz' ) AND ( `project_id` = '1' ) AND ( sites_id = '8585' )" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } ["links"]=> object(ParamsModel)#932 (24) { ["id"]=> string(2) "48" ["site_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["values_all":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["values":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["project_id":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["lang":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["data"]=> array(13) { ["param_id"]=> string(2) "48" ["project_id"]=> string(1) "1" ["identifier"]=> string(5) "links" ["multiple_values"]=> string(1) "1" ["selectable"]=> string(1) "1" ["public"]=> string(1) "0" ["visibility"]=> string(10) "programmer" ["type"]=> string(4) "CHAR" ["list"]=> string(1) "0" ["sites_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["name"]=> string(5) "links" ["unit"]=> string(0) "" ["lang"]=> string(2) "cz" } ["table":protected]=> string(11) "params_view" ["where"]=> string(70) "( `lang` = 'cz' ) AND ( `project_id` = '1' ) AND ( sites_id = '8585' )" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } ["textbanner_colorleft"]=> object(ParamsModel)#1059 (24) { ["id"]=> string(4) "7176" ["site_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["values_all":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["values":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["project_id":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["lang":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["data"]=> array(13) { ["param_id"]=> string(4) "7176" ["project_id"]=> string(1) "1" ["identifier"]=> string(20) "textbanner_colorleft" ["multiple_values"]=> string(1) "0" ["selectable"]=> string(1) "1" ["public"]=> string(1) "0" ["visibility"]=> string(7) "article" ["type"]=> string(10) "COLOUR_HEX" ["list"]=> string(1) "0" ["sites_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["name"]=> string(24) "TextBanner - barva vlevo" ["unit"]=> string(0) "" ["lang"]=> string(2) "cz" } ["table":protected]=> string(11) "params_view" ["where"]=> string(70) "( `lang` = 'cz' ) AND ( `project_id` = '1' ) AND ( sites_id = '8585' )" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } ["textbanner_colorright"]=> object(ParamsModel)#1061 (24) { ["id"]=> string(4) "7177" ["site_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["values_all":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["values":"ParamsModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["project_id":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["lang":"ParamsModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["data"]=> array(13) { ["param_id"]=> string(4) "7177" ["project_id"]=> string(1) "1" ["identifier"]=> string(21) "textbanner_colorright" ["multiple_values"]=> string(1) "0" ["selectable"]=> string(1) "1" ["public"]=> string(1) "0" ["visibility"]=> string(7) "article" ["type"]=> string(10) "COLOUR_HEX" ["list"]=> string(1) "0" ["sites_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["name"]=> string(25) "TextBanner - barva vpravo" ["unit"]=> string(0) "" ["lang"]=> string(2) "cz" } ["table":protected]=> string(11) "params_view" ["where"]=> string(70) "( `lang` = 'cz' ) AND ( `project_id` = '1' ) AND ( sites_id = '8585' )" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } } ["add_params":"SitesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["parts":"SitesModel":private]=> array(3) { ["text"]=> string(1406) "

Dobrý den,

ráda bych znala Váš názor na vztah s čerstvě rozvedeným mužem. S exmanželkou nežije cca 3 měsíce a vypadá to, že má v hlavě vše srovnané, ale stejně mám trochu obavu z toho, jestli pro něj nejsem jenom „náplast“. Dali jsme se dohromady až po rozvodu, předtím jsme byli dobří kamarádi.

Monika, 29 let

Odpověď

Milá Moniko,

pokud to není jen hojivá mast na jeho zraněné ego, to poznáte relativně brzy. V žádném případě nespěchejte  do manželství a nechte si prostor a čas pro ověření kvality vašeho vztahu. Myslím, že 1 rok je ta minimální doba, abyste spolu prožili krásné i složité chvíle.

Váš partner je teď jistě spokojen, že se zbavil „zátěže“ a je plný očekávání, ale tzv. porozvodové období je velmi emotivní. Emoce, jak je známo a mnohočetně ověřeno, jsou velmi silné a rácio vždy „převálcují“.

Proto jsou Vaše obavy trošku na místě. Ale udržte je prosím na správné úrovni, ať nenaruší a nezničí vztah, který má třeba šanci být ten pravý, spokojený a šťastný. Ale to nezáleží to jen na něm, Vy hrajete stejně důležitou roli .

PhDr. Eva Lavičková

" ["title"]=> string(36) "Vztah s čerstvě rozvedeným mužem" ["url"]=> string(32) "vztah-s-cerstve-rozvedenym-muzem" } ["project_id":"SitesModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["inherited_tags"]=> array(4) { [""]=> string(0) "" ["submenu"]=> string(7) "submenu" ["articles"]=> string(8) "articles" ["poradna"]=> string(7) "poradna" } ["children":"SitesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["children_count":"SitesModel":private]=> NULL ["state_allowed":"SitesModel":private]=> string(9) "published" ["url_prefix":"SitesModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["added_parts":"SitesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["data"]=> array(21) { ["sites_id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["relation_id"]=> string(4) "7500" ["lft"]=> string(6) "917987" ["rgt"]=> string(6) "917988" ["depth"]=> string(1) "3" ["list"]=> string(2) "17" ["parent_id"]=> string(4) "7483" ["project_id"]=> string(1) "1" ["tags"]=> string(0) "" ["type"]=> string(7) "article" ["url"]=> string(32) "vztah-s-cerstve-rozvedenym-muzem" ["state"]=> string(9) "published" ["state_inherit"]=> string(1) "0" ["state_inherit_once"]=> string(1) "0" ["published_at"]=> string(19) "2011-07-21 16:10:38" ["updated"]=> string(19) "2017-03-18 03:11:56" ["created"]=> string(19) "2013-01-07 13:22:37" ["republished"]=> string(19) "2011-07-21 16:10:38" ["created_by"]=> string(1) "0" ["lang"]=> string(2) "cz" ["title"]=> string(36) "Vztah s čerstvě rozvedeným mužem" } ["id"]=> string(4) "8585" ["table":protected]=> string(10) "sites_view" ["where"]=> string(58) "( sites_view.lang = 'cz' and sites_view.project_id = '1' )" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" ["lang"]=> string(2) "cz" ["files"]=> object(FilesModel)#37 (28) { ["upload_path"]=> string(58) "/srv/eliska2/webapps/eliska2.0/www/w/spektrumzdravi/files/" ["cache_path":"FilesModel":private]=> string(58) "/srv/eliska2/webapps/eliska2.0/www/w/spektrumzdravi/cache/" ["files_path":"FilesModel":private]=> string(24) "/w/spektrumzdravi/files/" ["id"]=> NULL ["site_id":"FilesModel":private]=> int(8585) ["project_id":"FilesModel":private]=> int(1) ["lang":"FilesModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["images":"FilesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["images_all":"FilesModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["data"]=> array(0) { } ["table":protected]=> string(10) "files_view" ["where"]=> string(274) "( project_id = '1' ) AND ( sites_id = '8585' ) AND ( (url like '%.gif' || url like '%.png' || url like '%.jpg' || url like '%.jpeg' || url like '%.bmp' || url like '%.pdf' || url like '%.pdf' || url like '%.pdf' || url like '%.pdf' || url like '%.pdf' || url like '%.pdf') )" ["order_by":protected]=> string(0) "" ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> string(0) "" ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" ["query"]=> string(343) "SELECT * FROM `files_view` WHERE (`project_id` = '1' ) AND (`sites_id` = '8585' ) AND ((url like '%.gif' || url like '%.png' || url like '%.jpg' || url like '%.jpeg' || url like '%.bmp' || url like '%.pdf' || url like '%.pdf' || url like '%.pdf' || url like '%.pdf' || url like '%.pdf' || url like '%.pdf') ) GROUP BY `file_id` ORDER BY `list`" } ["consults"]=> object(ConsultingModel)#30 (26) { ["project_id":"ConsultingModel":private]=> string(1) "1" ["site_id":"ConsultingModel":private]=> string(4) "8585" ["lang":"ConsultingModel":private]=> string(2) "cz" ["additional_url":"ConsultingModel":private]=> NULL ["new_consults":"ConsultingModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["site_consults":"ConsultingModel":private]=> array(0) { } ["paginator"]=> string(0) "" ["data"]=> array(0) { } ["id"]=> NULL ["table":protected]=> string(25) "consults_view as consults" ["where"]=> string(0) "" ["order_by":protected]=> NULL ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" } } ["data"]=> array(22) { ["id"]=> string(3) "113" ["project_id"]=> string(1) "1" ["banner"]=> string(10) "nejsemosel" ["group"]=> string(0) "" ["active"]=> string(1) "0" ["bg_color"]=> string(7) "#dbdbdb" ["file_src"]=> string(32) "/w/spektrumzdravi/files/banners/" ["date"]=> string(19) "2017-09-18 15:08:04" ["type"]=> string(10) "background" ["width"]=> string(4) "1240" ["height"]=> string(3) "210" ["start"]=> string(10) "2017-09-18" ["end"]=> string(10) "2017-12-31" ["total_impressions"]=> string(1) "0" ["img_src"]=> string(100) "/w/spektrumzdravi/files/banners/nejsemosel_ciur_nejsemosel2017_branding_spektrumzdravi_1920x1200.jpg" ["img_link"]=> string(27) "http://www.izolujzdrave.cz/" ["img_file"]=> string(0) "" ["imgs"]=> array(1) { [0]=> string(68) "nejsemosel_ciur_nejsemosel2017_branding_spektrumzdravi_1920x1200.jpg" } ["img_links"]=> array(1) { ["nejsemosel_ciur_nejsemosel2017_branding_spektrumzdravi_1920x1200.jpg"]=> string(27) "http://www.izolujzdrave.cz/" } ["img_files"]=> array(1) { ["nejsemosel_ciur_nejsemosel2017_branding_spektrumzdravi_1920x1200.jpg"]=> string(0) "" } ["link"]=> string(46) "/?redirect=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.izolujzdrave.cz%2F" ["file_type"]=> string(32) "/w/spektrumzdravi/files/banners/" } ["id"]=> string(3) "113" ["table":protected]=> string(11) "banners_all" ["where"]=> string(114) "( banner_id = '113' AND sub_identifier = 'nejsemosel_ciur_nejsemosel2017_branding_spektrumzdravi_1920x1200.jpg' )" ["order_by":protected]=> string(0) "" ["limit":protected]=> NULL ["limit_offset":protected]=> int(0) ["select":protected]=> string(1) "*" ["group_by":protected]=> NULL ["from":protected]=> NULL ["joins":protected]=> array(0) { } ["paginate":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_total_rows":"BaseModel":private]=> bool(false) ["p_prefix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(13) "?pagination=1" ["p_suffix":"BaseModel":private]=> string(0) "" ["p_prev_link"]=> string(4) "<" ["p_next_link"]=> string(4) ">" ["p_first_link"]=> string(2) "«" ["p_last_link"]=> string(2) "»" ["banner"]=> string(10) "nejsemosel" ["group"]=> string(0) "" ["active"]=> string(1) "0" ["bg_color"]=> string(7) "#dbdbdb" ["file_src"]=> NULL ["date"]=> string(19) "2017-09-18 15:08:04" ["type"]=> string(10) "background" ["width"]=> string(4) "1240" ["height"]=> string(3) "210" ["start"]=> string(10) "2017-09-18" ["end"]=> string(10) "2017-12-31" ["total_impressions"]=> string(1) "0" ["img_src"]=> string(68) "nejsemosel_ciur_nejsemosel2017_branding_spektrumzdravi_1920x1200.jpg" ["img_link"]=> string(27) "http://www.izolujzdrave.cz/" ["img_file"]=> string(0) "" ["imgs"]=> array(1) { [0]=> string(68) "nejsemosel_ciur_nejsemosel2017_branding_spektrumzdravi_1920x1200.jpg" } ["img_links"]=> array(1) { ["nejsemosel_ciur_nejsemosel2017_branding_spektrumzdravi_1920x1200.jpg"]=> string(27) "http://www.izolujzdrave.cz/" } ["img_files"]=> array(1) { ["nejsemosel_ciur_nejsemosel2017_branding_spektrumzdravi_1920x1200.jpg"]=> string(0) "" } ["query"]=> string(180) "SELECT * FROM `banners_impressions` WHERE (`banner_id` = '113' AND `sub_identifier` = 'nejsemosel_ciur_nejsemosel2017_branding_spektrumzdravi_1920x1200.jpg' ) ORDER BY `date` DESC" }

Vztah s čerstvě rozvedeným mužem

Dobrý den,

ráda bych znala Váš názor na vztah s čerstvě rozvedeným mužem. S exmanželkou nežije cca 3 měsíce a vypadá to, že má v hlavě vše srovnané, ale stejně mám trochu obavu z toho, jestli pro něj nejsem jenom „náplast“. Dali jsme se dohromady až po rozvodu, předtím jsme byli dobří kamarádi.

Monika, 29 let

Odpověď

Milá Moniko,

pokud to není jen hojivá mast na jeho zraněné ego, to poznáte relativně brzy. V žádném případě nespěchejte  do manželství a nechte si prostor a čas pro ověření kvality vašeho vztahu. Myslím, že 1 rok je ta minimální doba, abyste spolu prožili krásné i složité chvíle.

Váš partner je teď jistě spokojen, že se zbavil „zátěže“ a je plný očekávání, ale tzv. porozvodové období je velmi emotivní. Emoce, jak je známo a mnohočetně ověřeno, jsou velmi silné a rácio vždy „převálcují“.

Proto jsou Vaše obavy trošku na místě. Ale udržte je prosím na správné úrovni, ať nenaruší a nezničí vztah, který má třeba šanci být ten pravý, spokojený a šťastný. Ale to nezáleží to jen na něm, Vy hrajete stejně důležitou roli .

PhDr. Eva Lavičková


Stáhnout v PDF

Přečteno: 3699x

Celkový počet prokliků: 2

array(0) { } array(0) { } array(0) { }
Rozbalit všechny příspěvky
Nový komentář

Odesláním komentáře souhlasíte s pravidly diskuze.

Diskuse je zatím prázdná.

Doporučujeme k tématu

SODALIT náhrdelník sekaný

Sodalit náhrdelník - leštěné kameny ve tvaru nepravidelných sekaných zrn jsou…

Cena: 90 Kč

JADEIT náhrdelník sekaný

Jadeit náhrdelník - leštěné kameny ve tvaru nepravidelných sekaných zrn jsou…

Cena: 90 Kč

MAGNEZIT náhrdelník sekaný

Magnezit náhrdelník - leštěné kameny ve tvaru nepravidelných sekaných zrn jsou…

Cena: 90 Kč

JASPIS ČERVENÝ náhrdelník sekaný

Jaspis červený náhrdelník - leštěné kameny ve tvaru nepravidelných sekaných…

Cena: 90 Kč

TYRKENIT náhrdelník sekaný

Leštěné kameny ve tvaru nepravidelných sekaných zrn jsou navlečeny na šňůře…

Cena: 90 Kč

RŮŽENÍN náhrdelník sekaný

Leštěné kameny ve tvaru nepravidelných sekaných zrn jsou navlečeny na šňůře…

Cena: 90 Kč

Pro dodržení zásad pro získání souhlasu koncových uživatelů v EU bychom vás chtěli informovat, že tento web používá k poskytování služeb, personalizaci reklam a analýze návštěvnosti soubory cookie. Používáním tohoto webu s tím souhlasíte